Saturday, September 8, 2007

Did you know?

Did you know... that Da5id and I have been in therapy for about a year now?
Not for anything bad, really... i had first gotten the idea from a queer eye for the straight guy episode.
One of the guys said that it was smart to see a couples therapist once one gets engaged because...all those little problems that one has now... can become huge problems that may threaten a marriage. It's not because there's anything wrong with the 2 of you, it's just that you want to make sure you have the tools in place to use for the next big step.... for marriage.
So Da5id and i go... from time to time on a Saturday morning...
and I must's done wonders... the little things that used to irk us about the other... the not knowing what he means...or second guessing...the wanting him to understand... that's all something that we can say we're truly working on... and have made progress on. Leaps and bounds really.

So... yeah...
it's the best advice I've been given... and I wanted to pass it on to you.

* Editor's note: this does not mean that there were no problems that didn't need major attention or that there weren't a few things that didn't get us almost broken up... i'm just saying that it's good advice, whether there are Major problems or not.


Bringing Up Ben said...
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Bringing Up Ben said...

why did it delete my comment? bullocks.
anyway, I said you were brave x2 - for going and for being open about it.
So there! You can't shut me up!