Wednesday, September 12, 2007

4 months EXACTLY

I... am freaking out...

I don't know how this is going to happen and if it's gonna be what i want it to be.

Da5id's not doing much better....he thinks he's having anxiety attacks...
not to mention that his job sucks and he hasn't been able to find another one

oi vay!

Saturday, September 8, 2007

Did you know?

Did you know... that Da5id and I have been in therapy for about a year now?
Not for anything bad, really... i had first gotten the idea from a queer eye for the straight guy episode.
One of the guys said that it was smart to see a couples therapist once one gets engaged because...all those little problems that one has now... can become huge problems that may threaten a marriage. It's not because there's anything wrong with the 2 of you, it's just that you want to make sure you have the tools in place to use for the next big step.... for marriage.
So Da5id and i go... from time to time on a Saturday morning...
and I must's done wonders... the little things that used to irk us about the other... the not knowing what he means...or second guessing...the wanting him to understand... that's all something that we can say we're truly working on... and have made progress on. Leaps and bounds really.

So... yeah...
it's the best advice I've been given... and I wanted to pass it on to you.

* Editor's note: this does not mean that there were no problems that didn't need major attention or that there weren't a few things that didn't get us almost broken up... i'm just saying that it's good advice, whether there are Major problems or not.

Thursday, September 6, 2007

hello out there!

It's been a long time since I've been on here.
Hello everyone.

I've been in self-imposed exile... mainly because I needed to just...step back and gain some perspective... not to mention just to take a break.

So....things are still proceeding wedding wise... had my second fitting last Thursday...will have the final one on the 20th. We ordered the invitations this week...
Gosh... What else is there to do?? I'm sure there's a lot more but i just can't think of it right now.

Why is this all going so fast?! to work