Comments on Reconciling Saints: Coming Clean -OR- Unapologetic

Glad to know that you were able to gain some insig...

2009-12-21T09:46:32.483-08:00

Glad to know that you were able to gain some insight in some of our prior conversations on the topic and find your own unique path to the truth. Congratulations!

You're poly?! AWESOME

2009-12-20T18:10:53.245-08:00

You're poly?! AWESOME

Hey Ceci, I wasn't aware of your choice, but ...

2009-12-20T14:47:41.099-08:00

Hey Ceci,

I wasn't aware of your choice, but you can certainly talk to me about it. No one on the outside of a relationship truly knows what is going on inside, so you really can't rely on what outsiders decide is best, no matter how well meaning they are. I know that the two of you love each other. You can work out the rules of engagement together, throughout your marriage.

(PS: You should read Stephanie Coontz' "Marriage: A History," which traces the history of marriage from its origins. Very well researched. It pretty much explodes the myth that there is one perfect definition of marriage that has always held true. Even, a "traditional" marriage today is in many ways pretty radical, from a historical standpoint.)

Living honestly is so... free. And not everyone fi...

2009-12-20T08:56:35.788-08:00

Living honestly is so... free. And not everyone finds their freedom. I am happy for you!! :)